16 Oct 2025
Privacy, often valued by men, is frequently traded by women for online brand building and attention, sparking criticism that is dismissed as mere observation rather than condemnation. This trend, coupled with the influence of the 'female economy,' impacts free speech and personal privacy, making authentic, non-performative interactions increasingly rare.

Privacy is generally important to men but not to women, who often trade their family's privacy to build an online brand.
Observations about women using personal lives for online branding often draw criticism as hateful or jealous, but the intent is to highlight a prevailing trend, not to condemn all mothers.
Many mothers tend to be performative, engaging in actions for public view rather than for pure, selfless benefit, which contrasts with truly special private moments.
The speaker's father, despite a busy schedule, selflessly coached basketball without seeking personal gain or public acknowledgment, creating cherished private memories.
In 2023, the speaker faced government surveillance, demonetization on YouTube, and deletion of multiple social media accounts for discussing men's issues, necessitating a show shutdown and restart.
To combat censorship, the speaker created the Audacity Network, an app designed as a free speech platform for accessing content and shaping future projects, supported by a subscription model.
The 'female economy,' where women influence 80% of consumer buying decisions, enables the control of online discourse by influencing funding on platforms like YouTube, which prioritize catering to this majority female audience over the free flow of ideas.
When seemingly nice actions are revealed to have ulterior motives or expectations of reciprocity, it diminishes sincerity and leaves a 'weird taste,' making private, selfless moments even more valuable.
The widespread adoption and addiction to smartphones have made privacy a thing of the past, with constant 4K video recording impacting public interactions and raising concerns about being unknowingly filmed.
Social media acts as a pipeline to divorce, OnlyFans, and prostitution, driven by incentives that reward increasing nudity and attention, exemplified by cases like Sophie Rain.
It is nearly impossible to navigate modern society without smartphones and social media, as they are crucial for community, event invitations, and general social interaction, especially for younger generations.
The advice to 'ditch phones and move to a farm' is impractical, as small towns no longer offer robust community or access to essential services like good doctors and jobs, leading to isolation.
Women demonstrably trade privacy for attention on social media by posting family photos and selfies, sometimes with dangerous consequences, as seen in instances where sharing locations has led to harm.
Social media functions as a pipeline leading to divorce, OnlyFans, and prostitution due to inherent incentives that reward increasing exposure over privacy.
| Insight | Description |
|---|---|
| Privacy vs. Attention Trade-off | Men value privacy more than women, who frequently exchange family privacy for online attention and brand building. |
| Performative Behavior in Women | Many women's actions are driven by a need for external validation or future gain, rather than pure selflessness, diminishing the value of seemingly nice gestures. |
| Censorship of 'Men's Issues' | Advocating for men's issues can lead to severe censorship, demonetization, and deplatforming on major social media sites. |
| Influence of the Female Economy | The 'female economy' dictates online content by controlling funding decisions, thus suppressing diverse viewpoints and free speech on platforms. |
| Social Media's Destructive Incentives | Social media's reward system for exposure and nudity creates a pipeline towards divorce, OnlyFans, and other problematic outcomes. |
| Ubiquity of Digital Connection | Smartphones and social media are indispensable for modern social interaction and community, making complete disengagement impractical and isolating. |
